Parenting: Nurturing Bonds And Growth

Parenting is a journey, both rewarding and challenging. Research by the Fuller Institute suggests parents are the most significant influence in a person’s life. Regardless of the relationship children have with their parents, the parent-child relationship affects a child’s internal and external relationships.

From the moment our child is born, we are preparing them for life of independence. A life individuated from their parents yet shared with their parents. This journey from dependency to autonomy is crucial. After all, our children are adults with us for many more years of life than they do as children. Successful parenting ensures that as they mature, we grow with them rather than apart from them.

Most of us start our parenting journey with the best of intentions. The foundation of our parenting style is often influenced by our own upbringing. We work to shield our children safe from harm, fulfill their needs, and provide a life perhaps even better than we had. Naturally, we aim to replicate the positive aspects of our upbringing while modifying the aspects we felt were lacking.

The impact of our own upbringing resonates beyond just parenting; it affects all our relationships. A solid parent-child bond can better equip a child to handle societal and peer pressures. Regardless of the stage of our parenting journey, there’s always opportunity to nurture a better relationship and continue to grow in our relationship.

Understanding our lineage—our parents and their parents—is crucial. It allows us to recognize legacy burdens and gifts. By introspecting and perhaps even documenting our personal stories, we can heal from inherited traumas and amplify the positive traits passed down through generations. Without such reflection, we risk perpetuating cycles we aim to break.

When a child is born, they are born with more neurons in their brain than there are stars in the sky. Their capacity to learn is limitless at birth and shaped by nurture and the environments in which we develop. While ensuring physical health and safety, parents also play a pivotal role in a child’s emotional, behavioral, social, and cognitive development. It is not at overwhelming as it sounds or seems. Such responsibilities may sound daunting, but often, we impose more pressure on ourselves than necessary.

Prioritizing physical health means creating an environment where children can thrive and face challenges while being shielded from grave harm. Likewise, fostering emotional, behavioral, social, and cognitive skills entails providing opportunities for children to express themselves, gain diverse experiences, and learn without facing emotional or verbal abuse. Healthy parents—physically, mentally, and emotionally—are the cornerstone for raising wholesome children and forging lasting, joyous relationships.

The essence of parenting is to nurture with love, compassion, and curiosity. Three ways we cultivate a relationship of growth with our children:

  • Looking into our personal histories, reflecting on impactful moments, and approach them with curiosity and compassion.
  • Encourage our children to carve their own paths, acknowledging they are products of two unique individuals with rich life experiences. Support them, even as they stumble and learn.
  • Prepare them for the world, understanding they deserve their individuality and the right to self-determination.

In conclusion, let’s celebrate in life’s blessings! Celebrate the gift of existence, the joy of family, and the tales we pen each day. Embrace imperfections, seek acceptance, and be grateful for every chance at renewal and growth that life affords.

As seen in At Home Memphis and Midsouth.


Information on this website is provided for informational purposes only. This information is not intended as a substitute for the advice provided by your physician or other healthcare professional or any information contained on or in any product label or packaging. Do not use the information on this website for diagnosing or treating a health problem or disease, or prescribing medication or other treatment. Always speak with your physician or other healthcare professional before taking any medication or nutritional, herbal, or homeopathic supplement, or using any treatment for a health problem. If you have or suspect that you have a medical problem, contact your healthcare provider promptly. Do not disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking professional advice because of something you have read on this website. Information provided on this website and the use of any products or services purchased from our website by you do not create a doctor-client relationship between you and any of the physicians affiliated with our website. Information and statements regarding dietary supplements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.